How do you know when enough is enough?

I was talking to my Mother earlier, she was telling me a story about my Aunt, who was so devastated, and was completely isolated in the state where she build her hopes and dreams because of her husband. People did actually believed on what her "ex husband" was accusing of her, they were one sided I guess and didn't take my Aunt's side of explanation/story. I feel sorry for her. She tried to protect 30 years of marriage, and the one who she thought would never turned his back on her and would be the last person to turn her down did actually turned her down.

People do change, nothing last forever that's what my Mother said earlier. I find it true, indeed nothing last forever. From a good man, to a mad man, he even threatened to kill my Aunt. Too much of a good man eh? People did actually believe his stories. People believed how evil my Aunt was. They judged her without even hearing the other side of the story.

People should grow up, and need to start acting their age. They should mind their own business and stop meddling. They should stop judging other people without even hearing their stories. 


She was fed up. She filled a divorce. 

She even quoted :

"Many of you will state the scripture of “unconditional love” is always forgiving, always forgetting and always loving each other. Others will state our vows of “in sickness and in health, through thick or thin, for richer and for poorer, till death do us part”. What everyone failed to understand, that those phrases only applies to those couples who honors the sanctity and privacy of their marriage. Marriage is about Love where love is patient and slow to anger, love is kind and not selfish, love is thoughtful and not rude, love is not irritable, love believes in the best, and most important of all, love is not “jealous”. You cannot put Love and jealousy in the same sentence because a very positive feeling cannot be mixed with a very negative and dangerous feeling at the same time. Yet people will say I love her very much but I am jealous, that is why I did this. "

 

She no longer can take it anymore, she was fed up. She was right when she said that 

 

We are only human to make so many mistakes and forgiveness, but everything has a limit for the human nature! Even God knows that everything in our human nature has a limit to have an end, so that a new and better beginning will sprout from what has ended.

 

So do we really know when enough is enough? Do we need to wait for it to a point that, when it reached it's limit and then that's the time you should stop? Do you know when to stop? Do you really know when enough is enough?